THIS IS A HERO

Beloved,

I just received this from a dear friend and just HAD
to share it with you especially on this Memorial Day.
God Bless Our Human Spirit.

MAY GOD BLESS THIS AIRLINE CAPTAIN:

He writes: My lead flight attendant came to me and said, “We have an
H.R. on this flight.” (H.R. stands for human remains.) “Are they military?” I asked.

‘Yes’, she said.

‘Is there an escort?’ I asked.

‘Yes, I already assigned him a seat’.

‘Would you please tell him to come to the flight deck. You can board him early,” I said..

A short while later, a young army sergeant entered the flight deck. He
was the image of the perfectly dressed soldier. He introduced himself and I asked him about his soldier. The escorts of these fallen soldiers talk about them as if they are still alive and still with us.

‘My soldier is on his way back to Virginia,’ he said. He proceeded to
answer my questions, but offered no words.

I asked him if there was anything I could do for him and he said no. I
told him that he had the toughest job in the military and that I appreciated the work that he does for the families of our fallen soldiers. The first officer and I got up out of our seats to shake his hand. He left the flight deck to find his seat.

We completed our preflight checks, pushed back and performed an uneventful departure. About 30 minutes into our flight I received a call from the lead flight attendant in the cabin. ‘I just found out the family of the soldier we are carrying, is on board’, she said. She then proceeded to tell me that the father, mother, wife and 2-year old daughter were escorting their son, husband, and father home. The family was upset because they were unable to see the container that the soldier was in before we left. We were on our way to a major hub at which the family was going to wait four hours for the connecting flight home to Virginia.

The father of the soldier told the flight attendant that knowing his son was below him in the cargo compartment and being unable to see him was too much for him and the family to bear. He had asked the flight attendant if there was anything that could be done to allow them to see him upon our arrival. The family wanted to be outside by the cargo door to watch the soldier being taken off the airplane.. I could hear the desperation in the flight attendants voice when she asked me if there was anything I could do.. ‘I’m on it’, I said. I told her that I would get back to her.

Airborne communication with my company normally occurs in the form of e-mail like messages. I decided to bypass this system and contact my flight dispatcher directly on a secondary radio. There is a radio operator in the operations control center who connects you to the telephone of the dispatcher. I was in direct contact with the dispatcher.. I explained the situation I had on board with the family and what it was the family wanted. He said he understood and that he would get back to me.

Two hours went by and I had not heard from the dispatcher. We were going to get busy soon and I needed to know what to tell the family. I sent a text message asking for an update. I saved the return message from the dispatcher and the following is the text:

‘Captain, sorry it has taken so long to get back to you. There is policy on this now and I had to check on a few things. Upon your arrival a dedicated escort team will meet the aircraft. The team will escort the family to the ramp and plane side. A van will be used to load the remains with a secondary van for the family. The family will be taken to their departure area and escorted into the terminal where the remains can be seen on the ramp. It is a private area for the family only. When the connecting aircraft arrives, the family will be escorted onto the ramp and plane side to watch the remains being loaded for the final leg home. Captain, most of us here in flight control are veterans. Please pass our condolences on to the family. Thanks.’

I sent a message back telling flight control thanks for a good job. I printed out the message and gave it to the lead flight attendant to pass on to the father. The lead flight attendant was very thankful and told me, ‘You have no idea how much this will mean to them.’

Things started getting busy for the descent, approach and landing.
After landing, we cleared the runway and taxied to the ramp area. The ramp is huge with 15 gates on either side of the alleyway. It is always a busy area with aircraft maneuvering every which way to enter and exit. When we entered the ramp and checked in with the ramp controller, we were told that all traffic was being held for us.

‘There is a team in place to meet the aircraft’, we were told. It looked like it was all coming together, then I realized that once we turned the seat belt sign off, everyone would stand up at once and delay the family from getting off the airplane. As we approached our gate, I asked the copilot to tell the ramp controller we were going to stop short of the gate to make an announcement to the passengers. He did that and the ramp controller said, ‘Take your time.’

I stopped the aircraft and set the parking brake. I pushed the public address button and said, ‘Ladies and gentleman, this is your Captain speaking I have stopped short of our gate to make a special announcement.

We have a passenger on board who deserves our honor and respect. His Name is Private XXXXXX, a soldier who recently lost his life. Private XXXXXX is under your feet in the cargo hold. Escorting him today is Army Sergeant XXXXXXX. Also, on board are his father, mother, wife, and daughter. Your entire flight crew is asking for all passengers to remain in their seats to allow the family to exit the aircraft first. Thank you.’

We continued the turn to the gate, came to a stop and started our
shutdown procedures. A couple of minutes later I opened the cockpit door. I found the two forward flight attendants crying, something you just do not see. I was told that after we came to a stop, every passenger on the aircraft stayed in their seats, waiting for the family to exit the aircraft.

When the family got up and gathered their things, a passenger slowly
started to clap his hands. Moments later more passengers joined in and soon the entire aircraft was clapping. Words of ‘God Bless You’, I’m sorry, thank you, be proud, and other kind words were uttered to the family as they made their way down the aisle and out of the airplane. They were escorted down to the ramp to finally be with their loved one.

Many of the passengers disembarking thanked me for the announcement I had made. They were just words, I told them, I could say them over and over again, but nothing I say will bring back that brave soldier.

I respectfully ask that all of you reflect on this event and the
sacrifices that millions of our men and women have made to ensure our freedom and safety in these United States of AMERICA .

Foot note:
As a Viet Nam Veteran I can only think of all the veterans including the ones that rode below the deck on their way home and how they were treated.

When I read things like this I am proud that our country has not turned their backs on our soldiers returning from the various war zones today and give them the respect they so deserve.

I know every one who has served their country who reads this will have
tears in their eyes, including me.

Prayer chain for our Military… Don’t break it!

Please send this on after a short prayer.. Prayer for our soldiers Don’t break it!

Prayer:

‘Lord, hold our troops in your loving hands. Protect them as they protect us. Bless them and their families for the selfless acts they perform for us in our time of need. Amen..’

Prayer Request: When you receive this, please stop for a moment and say a prayer for our troops around the world.

There is nothing attached. Just send this to people in your address book. Do not let it stop with you. Of all the gifts you could give a Marine, Soldier, Sailor, Airman, & others deployed in harm’s way, prayer is the very best one.

God Bless America

and… I feel we’re gonna need His Blessings!

GOD BLESS YOU!!!

Love and Light

Mary Grace
http://www.TheWoundedChalice.com
http://www.TheWoundedChalice.com/blog
[email protected]

3 Brows Beach Dr
PO Box 403
Wales, MA 01081, USA
413-245-3977

MEMORIAL DAY CELEBRATION

It seems like I was talking to you just yesterday. That is what
happens when I am late in sending out my newsletter. I am
time this week.

I just returned from a 2 day workshop in New York on
Celebrating (Understanding) Men ,Satisfying Women by
Alison Armstrong. Although she has graduates that teach
this workshop, it was the creator herself who led this one.

I have heard her speak several times on Jennifer McLeans’s
teleseminars and I really wanted to meet her in person. I was
not disappointed, she is one heck of a lady and a fantastic
teacher. I added Understanding to her title only because I
found that she led me to understand the males in my life and
all their actions that has baffled me for years.

I primarily went so that I could better understand my sons as
I do not have a significant male in my life right now. I found
that at the end of the workshop, I really understood all the men
so much better, including the two young men who mow my lawn.
What a gift this is. Now I understand that men are designed to
take your request seriously so they go to their deep well of
knowledge to find the answer or solution so they can help you.

It does take about 30 seconds to a minute before they have
brought up the bucket from their well with what they hope to
present to you. As women, we think perhaps that we need
to rephrase our question as it seems to take them so long
to answer. They simply are calculating the best solution
so they can help you but we think either we are being
ignored or perhaps they did not understand.

I now understand how to Listen to Learn and Wait for the Well.
It was an experiential workshop so we had a “buddy’ to help
practice our newfound knowledge so we would be more
comfortable before we talked to our men. My buddies and I
were surprised just how difficult it was for us to learn the
best method for communicating with men.

I met some remarkable women who are so interested
in making their lives and their significant males lives
easier and a lot more fun. We had women there who
wanted to understand their husbands, boyfriends, sons,
nephews, business partners, friends and all the males
in their lives. We had much laughter and comraderie.

It is easy for us women who are multitaskers and can talk
and do other things at the same time. Males simply cannot
do this, they are wired to be single focused which allows them
to be our providers and protectors. I am so happy that science
has discovered that the male and female brain are not made
the same way and consequently, require different modes
of responding to the same scenario. Viva la Difference!!

If you are going to New York or traveling anywhere using
the Merritt Parkway, I suggest you find another route. The
trip was supposed to take two and half hours but the
construction on this parkway was horrible. We were bumper
to bumper, start and stop. Then to top it off, there was an
accident and since the pathway was only two lanes and
bound on both sides, we had to move so close to the
barriers to allow enough room in the middle of us so
the emergency vehicles and firetrucks could make it
through. I have been driving for 52 years and have
never experienced this before.

It took me 4 hours to get there and I got there just
as the workshop was starting. So much for a
relaxing drive early in the morning. I was quite
frazzled by the time I got there. Another strange thing,
my GPS sent me that route but Mapquest was sending
me another route. Perhaps Mapquest knew of all
the delays whereas the GPS did not. I felt more
comfortable following the directions of the GPS
because it did not require reading the directions
while I was driving but I always bring the written
directions incase my GPS does not work which has
happened to me before.

This Memorial Day weekend is so special. It gives
us a reason to remember our veterans and what they
do for us. There is no family in America that has not
been touched by wars. Let us remember them and how
they serve us. Enjoy the celebration that ensues.

MEMORIAL DAY
It is the

VETERAN,
not the preacher,
who has given us freedom of religion.

It is
the VETERAN,
not the reporter,
who has given us freedom of the press.

It is
the VETERAN,
not the poet,
who has given us freedom of speech.

It is
the VETERAN,
not the campus organizer,
who has given us freedom to assemble.

It is
the VETERAN,
not the lawyer,
who has given us the right to a fair trial.

It is
the VETERAN,
not the politician,
Who has given us the right to vote.

It is the
VETERAN who
salutes the Flag,

It is
the
VETERAN
who serves
under the Flag,

ETERNAL
REST GRANT THEM O LORD, AND LET PERPETUAL LIGHT SHINE UPON
THEM.

I’d be
EXTREMELY proud if this email reached as many as possible. We can be very
proud of our young men and women in the service no matter where they serve.

God
Bless them all!!!

Makes you proud to be an AMERICAN!!!!!

Love and Light

Mary Grace
http://www.TheWoundedChalice.com
http://www.TheWoundedChalice.com/blog
[email protected]

GOAL NECESSITIES – HOPE AND STAMINA

Time really got away from me this past week, has that ever
happened to you? I’ll bet it has, it happens to all of us. I
apologize for being late with this newsletter.

Celebrations are all around us, there are many graduations
and parties to attend. My daughter-in-law was pinned with
her nursing degree of being a Registered Nurse one night and
graduated with her Associates Degree the next day. All this and
being a new mom with a year old daughter and now her husband,
my son, with a yet to be diagnosed illness. Who says females are
the weaker sex, I beg to differ with that statement. She was also
working part time. Whew!!!

My youngest son just got his college grades and he Aced them all.
He worked hard and now he is getting the results. It is more difficult
to go to college in your forties, you have been out of school for so
long that it takes a lot of sweat and stamina to get in the swing. Here
is a boy who quit high school and then decided years later to get his
GED and now he is in college. Never give up hope, one day you will
achieve your goals and perhaps in ways you never expected.

I was 52 years old when I got my Bachelor’s degree. I had set my
goal for a college diploma when I graduated from high school. I was
attending night school when I met my husband, got married at 17 and
had a child at 18. I had three children by the time I was 25 but I never
gave up trying to get my degree. I attended all the local colleges at one
time or another and piecemeal kept gathering credits until I finally
achieved my goal.

Life does take stamina and perseverance. I wonder how long it took
for the girls in this video to achieve the feats they perform. Check it
out.

This is a video of an act from 1944 – a sister act called the Ross Sisters.

I had never heard of them. The song they sing is about 45 seconds long (nothing special) but what they do next is…!

Can you imagine these girls on Australia ‘s Got , America Got Talent and/or England Got Talent?

I don’t think I have ever seen a human being do some of the stunts they did!

Hope you enjoy it!

(Watch past the first 60 seconds or so, then Whoa! Look Out!)

Click your mouse here: 1944 America’ Got Talent

Love and Light

Mary Grace
http://www.TheWoundedChalice.com
http://www.TheWoundedChalice.com/blog
[email protected]

3 Brows Beach Dr
PO Box 403
Wales, MA 01081, USA
413-245-3977