LOVE YOUR UNIQUENESS – LIFE AS AN ILLUSION/STAGE

Beloved,

We have had a wonderful winter although the ice fishermen
might disagree. The weather temperature has been unable
to stay low enough long enough to freeze the lake. It has
gotten a coating of thin ice perhaps 7 times but then the
temp goes back up and it melts in the middle. There
has not been one ice fisherman on Lake George this
winter although I have seen a couple on other lakes.
It is a dangerous winter for snowmobilers as several
have lost their lives due to going out before the ice is
thick enough to support them safely.

We have had a lot of rain though so there should be no
drought come summer. The moisture is coming in the
from of rain instead of snow. I am grateful because I do
not have to shovel rain and it is easier to drive in. This
morning is kind of grey and I am finding it difficult to
concentrate on “light” thoughts. It has been a week of
having dreams that shake me up as they have been about
my daughter and my two grandkids who are now out on
their own.

It is tough getting old enough to be independent and then
losing the security you had as a child when all was taken
care of for you. Of course, when you were a child, you
did not realize it and just could not wait to grow up and
be able to do what you want to do without any parents
telling you yea or nay. At first, it is great and the freedom
you feel is so euphoric until reality settles in. For instance,
if you don’t buy toilet paper there will be none there for you.
There is no more milk in fridge and no more toothpaste.
Little things but they feel so big when you have to remember
ALL those little things that make daily living easier.

My granddaughter decided this Christmas that she would not
celebrate Christmas, too much hassle and too much family
hovering over you and not feeling independent enough.
Her brother was so sick that he could not make it either.
Although I do not buy gifts for my grandkids after age 18, I
still make stockings for everyone including my quite adult
children. Before the age of 18, they get a tree ornament that
focuses on some aspect that was important to them the prior
year. This way when they do go out on their own, they will
never feel alone because they will have all the memories of their
childhood. They never know just what will be in the stockings
although they just love the car wash certificates and the
calendar that does double duty as a chance to win money
all year and something to keep their dates straight.

My grandson got his car wash certificate (rite of passage)
last Christmas as he had just gotten a car but his sister
did not have a car so her rite of passage is still in the
stocking that she has not picked up yet. I wrap each little
gift separately so they have a lot to open but are usually
small things that they never knew existed or they would not
purchase for themselves. I suppose it is no surprise to you
that I still have two stockings left over and they have still
not been to visit to get them.

When children get to that certain “adult” age, you see them
when they need something but other than that, they are so
busy living life, that they don’t realize that time passes so
quickly especially if you are the age of a retired grandparent.
I was a grandmother the first time when I was 39 so I didn’t
notice her absence as much because I was busy working and
“trying” to get everything done. This is another reminder to me
to savor “each” moment because that is all we have. We don’t
have the past anymore and the future is not here yet, so just be
aware and enjoy what is happening right now.

OI hope I am not being too morose for you. I guess when you
get to a certain age, you realize that although you should have
plenty of time left to do certain things, you have a keener
awareness of the passing of time and what you would like
to leave for a legacy. And you certainly don’t want your
loved ones to feel any guilt over events that happened. I, for
one, would like my legacy to be that I loved each and every
one of them so very much and took pride in their independence
and what their legacy will be to leave the future generation.

This world is in an ongoing state of illusion with each of us having
our own illusion of what should be and what actually is. Have you
ever considered that your entire life is lived on a stage with people
coming and going and the props changing every now and then? So
what is actually reality and whose is it? Know that your world is
the one you create right around you and that you play many roles
either as the star on your own stage or in a supporting role on
someone else’s stage.

Enjoy this little card trick, I know I did.

Irish magician Dave Cremin in a short video clip here is seen
performing the greatest card trick you’ll ever witness — right
in the heart of Times Square.

CLICK THE DECK OF CARDS, BELOW, TO SEE THE VIDEO:

http://www.youtube.com/v/Uh0CMcLiRkw&feature=share

More good news, we humans are hard at work being creative
and the answers come from earth people just like ourselves.

Biofuel Breakthrough: Seaweed Could Power Cars
Energy experts believe that seaweed holds enormous potential as a biofuel alternative to coal and oil, and US scientists say they have unlocked the secret of turning its complex sugar into energy. (AFP)

Love and Light

Mary Grace
www.TheWoundedChalice.com
www.IAmMaryGrace.com
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PO Box 403
Wales, MA 01081, USA
413-245-3977

LOVE YOUR UNIQUENESS

Beloved,

What a fabulous weekend we just had. Indian Summer
was never more beautiful. Not only were we able to
go outside with just short sleeves, the sun for five days
just lifted all of our spirits.

I woke up one of those mornings and gasped with surprise
and pleasure after I raised the blinds and looked out my
bow window facing the lake. The water was just like glass
except it was a rainbow of colors. The sun was at such an
angle that it illumined all the colors of the trees and even the
few white clouds above. Our fall colors until that day were
quite dull I thought but it could been the many days of rain
that made it appear like that. The colors were so vibrant
and it was such a glorious site of seeing double the scene
in front of me. The reality of the clouds in the sky and
the colors of the actual trees against the reflection of all
that in the water.

In fact, as I was mesmerized by this, a man appeared
with a camera and a tripod. I have no idea who he
was, I had never seen him before and there he was
on the beach quite close to the water and he captured
that moment in time with his camera. I bet it ends up
on a calendar or in a book or who knows what.

I was in such gratitude for being here at this particular
moment in real life and not just enjoying a picture of it.
How blessed I am to live here and get these awesome
moments to treasure. Of course, the sun changes and
then the breeze picks up which ripples the water and
changes the whole effect. But….WOW, I wish I
could sear it into my memory yet need to appreciate
the very moment I am in and move on to the next one.

Of course after that, I am sure you know I went out
in my kayak, how could I not? As I am out in the
water with a current now, I began to look up at
all the trees and the many variations of colors that
each tree had and how Mother Nature makes such
a beautiful painting of the kaleidoscope of hues.
I seemed to go into a meditation of sorts although
I was aware of where I was .

The thought entered my mind of how much similarity
there was between humans and trees. The earth is
certainly abundant with both. We both have our
beginnings as seeds. Not all seeds grow into trees
or humans. As the seed is germinated, it begins
to grow and is protected and nurtured by a
womb or the dirt that encases it. The seedling
is like a newborn who needs to be nurtured and
protected while in infancy. They need mature adults
whether they be human parents or grown trees
that shelter and give the young sprout a chance
to grow into maturity.

There are stages of growth in humans and trees.
Seasons reflect also the newborn (Spring), young
adulthood (Summer), middle age (Fall) and maturity
(Winter). Trees begin in Spring with buds which
bloom into light colored leaves, then into Summer
where the leaves get a deeper color, then into
Fall where their individuality of color stands out,
then into Winter where all the leaves (hair) fall and
they stand naked in their strength just like a senior
adult.

I began to wonder if trees felt different and perhaps
alone like so many humans do. They are all green
at the beginning and have unique shaped leaves just
as we humans have unique faces and bodies.
Have you ever noticed that similar trees are usually
in groups but then there are the ones who all of a
sudden appear different? Just like people, there
are those that “appear” different. Lo and behold,
they (trees and humans) are different to enhance
the traditional ones.

A beautiful red tree in the fall is quite unique, did it
ever feel like it was the only one in a crowd of
yellow, orange and green trees? Do you feel
different than all your family, friends and peers?

I then realized that the beautiful red tree “enhanced ”
all the other colors. It brought out the uniqueness of
each color which by itself would not have created the
beautiful symphony of colors that met and pleased my
eye. Are you afraid to be unique? Your uniqueness
can only bless and amplify the beauty of those around
you. It takes all the colored trees and all the humans
to be so spectacular.

If we look at humanity as a whole, the uniqueness does
not stand out just as the trees do not reflect the beauty
of each leaf and its uniqueness. You have to look at
the individual leaf or person to notice the beauty of each.
Each leaf of every tree has its own Divine Timing and
purpose just as it echoes each individual human’s timing.
Not all the leaves turn color at the same time and each
one is destined to fall to the ground in its own time.
Each human does not reach its peak at the same age
and contributes to the whole whatever “stage” it is in.

Have you ever looked closely at a leaf to see just how
unique it is. Not even a snowflake of which we have
innumerable are the same,each is unique. So are
humans each unique and irreplaceable. There is no
one just like you, you have a purpose that only you
can fill and you fill it by just BEING you. You are
not called a human being for nothing, you are not
a human DOING. Just be…….like the leaf that
appears to just hang there until it falls. The beautiful
loving energy that is you only needs to BE.

AND YOU WILL AFFECT ALL OF THE WORLD

Lets be proud of the kaleidoscope that we are as we
love each others differences. I find it so hard to put
into words just what I felt and became aware of
while sharing myself with the trees and the water.
I do know to the depths of my soul that the “whole”
is not complete even if one individual is missing. It
takes all of us with our unique color or flavor to
make us complete, a whole world.

Let me leave you with the beauty and simplicity yet
joyfulness of this video.

A sweet, short video written, performed and animated
by Wendy J. Francisco, describes the love shown her by
both her Dog and her God. With this simple piece of
poetry, Wendy has racked up 3 million hits on YouTube
in two years. (Happy video is sure to wag your tail!)

Love and Light

Mary Grace

www.TheWoundedChalice.com
www.TheWoundedChalice.com/blog
TheWoundedChalice@gmail.com

PO Box 403
Wales, MA 01081, USA
413-245-3977