GOD’S WIFE?

I have been liberated from confinement. I cannot
tell you the freedom I feel after being housebound
for 7 weeks. I have now been given permission
to drive so now at least I can get my own mail. I have
a PO Box because mail does not get delivered as
I live on a private way.

Driving to the store and getting my own food has improved
my choice of food considerably. One of the benefits
of this hibernation is that I have lost weight and at the same time
been blessed with the rediscovery of the food I used to take
for granted.

Just as we are seeing in Haiti, when there is need people
step up to the plate to help. I am so grateful that humans
have the willingness to help when occasions arise but until
we personally experience that need, our minds do not
reflect on that enormous gift. Living alone like I do and being
fiercely independent, it has been a humbling experience which
I hope I never lose awareness of.

A deep appreciation of my friends, family and all of those
human angels who stepped up to help me in my time of need
has been cemented into my awareness. Including a neighbor
who brought my trash to the local dump as we do not have
trash pickup and his kindness in purchasing and installing a
new battery in my car as the frigid temperatures had my
old one take its last gasp.

Last but not least, thank you for sending me
those wonderful cards and messages of encouragement.

Today, I am in a melancholy mood as I ponder all that I
have experienced . It has brought me into such gratitude
for all that I have and all that I have been given. I write
this as the temperature is 3 degrees and the snow drifts are
as high as the top of my deck railing. The winds that have
caused this have just about stopped and my “moaning” door
is quiet again.

The simplicity of children brings me much joy and I would
like to share with you the warmth, simplicity, joy and humor
of our little people. Remember a smile sends chemicals
to your brain and you feel “Oh, so good”!

Love and Light

Mary Grace
http://www.TheWoundedChalice.com
http://www.TheWoundedChalice.com/blog
[email protected]

God’s Wife
LOOK OUT FOR THE LAST STORY……
IT WILL KNOCK YOUR SOCKS OFF

Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once
Talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
The purpose of the
Contest was to find the most caring child.

The winner was:

A four-year-old child, whose next door
neighbor was an elderly gentleman, who had recently lost his
wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old
Gentleman’s’ yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his mother asked him what he had
said to the neighbor, the little boy just said, ‘Nothing, I just
Helped him cry.’

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Teacher Debbie Moon’s first graders were
discussing a picture of a family. One little boy in the picture
had a different hair color than the other members… One of her
students suggested that he was adopted.
A little girl said, ‘I know all about
Adoption, I was adopted..’

‘What does it mean to be adopted?’, asked
another child.

‘It means’, said the girl, ‘that you grew
in your mommy’s heart instead of her tummy!’

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On my way home one day, I stopped to
watch a Little League baseball game that was being played in a
park near my home. As I sat down behind the bench on the first-
base line, I asked one of the boys what the score was
‘We’re behind 14 to nothing,’ he answered
With a smile.

‘Really,’ I said… ‘I have to say you
don’t look very discouraged.’

‘Discouraged?’, the boy asked with a
Puzzled look on his face…

‘Why should we be discouraged? We haven’t
Been up to bat yet.’

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Whenever I’m disappointed with my spot
in life, I stop and think about little Jamie Scott.

Jamie was trying out for a part in the
school play. His mother told me that he’d set his heart on being
in it, though she feared he would not be chosen.

On the day the parts were awarded, I went
with her to collect him after school. Jamie rushed up to her,
eyes shining with pride and excitement.. ‘Guess what, Mom ,’ he
shouted, and then said those words that will remain a lesson to
me….’I’ve been chosen to clap and cheer.’

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An eye witness account from New York
City , on a cold day in December,
some years ago: A little boy,
about 10-years-old, was standing before a shoe store on the
roadway, barefooted, peering through the window, and shivering
With cold.

A lady approached the young boy and said,
‘My, but you’re in such deep thought staring in that window!’

‘I was asking God to give me a pair of
shoes,’was the boy’s reply.

The lady took him by the hand, went into
the store, and asked the clerk to get half a dozen pairs of socks
for the boy. She then asked if he could give her a basin of water
and a towel. He quickly brought them to her.

She took the little fellow to the back
part of the store and, removing her gloves, knelt down, washed
his little feet, and dried them with the towel.

By this time, the clerk had returned with
the socks.. Placing a pair upon the boy’s feet, she purchased him
a pair of shoes..

She tied up the remaining pairs of socks
and gave them to him.. She patted him on the head and said, ‘No
doubt, you will be more comfortable now.’

As she turned to go, the astonished kid
caught her by the hand, and looking up into her face, with tears
in his eyes, asked her.

‘Are you God’s wife?’

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SEND TO ALL WHO LOVE AND CARE FOR CHILDREN.
Hope this put a smile on your face it
Sure did mine!

DONATE TO HAITI’S SURVIVAL – LINKS

Beloved,

My heart goes out to the people in Haiti and their relatives and friends around the world, as I’m sure yours does. Our brothers and sisters are in need and now is an important time to send our love, healing energy and money.

By holding the energy for everyone on the island to work together and take care of each other, no matter what, I know we can make a difference. I see everyone getting the medical care they need, an abundance of clean, potable water to drink and plenty of food and shelter. Please hold this vision with me if you choose to. The power of a group all focusing on the same thing is amazing! It’s easy to get rapped up in the drama, however, I feel that we can make the most impact by donating money and seeing every person receiving what they need. Of course, if you are a doctor, nurse or have other skills that can help and the means to get to Haiti, go!

I encourage you to stay balanced, centered and calm. Stay in your power and send lots of love and support to Haiti now. Hold the energy for them to quickly receive and give the help that is needed.

Just before 5 p.m. local time on Tuesday, January 12th, a devastating 7.0 magnitude earthquake struck the island nation of Haiti, affecting at least one million people, killing thousands more, and causing untold amounts of damage in this poverty-stricken island nation.

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What is not known, due to a severely compromised communication infrastructure, is how many Haitians have been hurt or killed by this natural disaster. Conservative estimates put the number of affected at around one million, or 1/3 of the population. Some, including Haiti’s consul general to the United Nations, Felix Augustin, are claiming that over 100,000 people have been killed.

What is apparent is that the survivors of this tragic event, and the aid workers rushing to help, are in need of immediate assistance in the form of medical supplies, emergency shelter, food, and water.

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Love and Light

Mary Grace
www.TheWoundedChalice.com

FACING THE FEAR OF REJECTION

It feels like a long time since I have been able to talk with you .
I am able to be out of my sling more and more so I am able
to type better and much easier. The occupational therapist,
Betty, who comes to my home has been fantastic. I still won’t
be able to drive for at least another two weeks. Another
XRay is needed to make sure it is healing right. Hopefully
I will be given the go ahead to drive.

This fractured shoulder episode has given me many opportunities
to face the demons(fears) that I had been able to bury. I am
cussedly independent and it takes all my courage to ask for
help.

I live alone so on a daily, hourly and sometimes minute by minute
basis, something else showed up that I cannot do. Yet so many things
need doing just to exist. For instance, I could not take a shower without
a hand held shower and also a bench in my tub for security. I could not
and would not agree to a sponge bath. I washed myself the best I could.

Oh the sorrows of being so modest and also so independent. What a
learning curve.

One of my sons tried to get me a hand held shower but in Walmart, they
were not with the shower things so he could not find one. Finally, my other
son found one in Home depot and he installed it for me. The Wales Senior
Center has benches that people can borrow and it was suggested I get
a tranfer bench which the director graciously brought to me only to discover
the back and the side were on the wrong side of the shower so it was not
usable for me.

The next day, she was going to bring me another regular bench and the shed
where these things are stored was frozen shut. The following day she brought
me one that would fit. Finally I had all in place and I was so looking forward to
the next day when my home health aide was to come.

A snow storm came up and she was unable to make it. This was on a
Thursday and she would not be back until Monday. Notice all the
stumbling blocks that were put in place to give me the opportunity
to practice PATIENCE and release all the things I thought I had to have.

By the time all was in place, it was three and a half weeks before
I was able to get a shower. It had been two weeks before I was
able to get my hair washed and that was sooner because it could
be done in the sink. I could not get my body into the sink for
a bath. :>)

I live in a very small town and on a private street. Because it is
a private street, my mail cannot be delivered and I have a Post
Office box which I cannot access without mobility.

Getting groceries was quite difficult as there are no delivery
services. Thank God for my family and friends and also
more opportunities to face my dreaded fear of asking for help.
I was even snowed in one Sunday as both my doors were blocked
with snow and would not open. I put in two frantic calls to the
young men who shovel and plow. There was no place I could
go as I was home bound but just the fact that I could not get
out really accentuated that fact. Boy, did I feel isolated, abandoned,
and so all alone.

I have had many blessings in this seemingly disaster. I discovered that
my fear of asking goes way back to childhood and the fear of
rejection. Although I am OK if someone cannot do what I ask,
the mere fact of asking is opening myself to rejection. I now realize
that if someone raised their voices or hollers, my instant reaction
is to run and hide. I do not stand my ground and argue, I simply
cannot…at least I couldn’t . I can stand up to anyone like a business
or someone who is not close to me. But friends and family can
reduce me to a quivering pile of tears.

I am now able to see at a much deeper level just how terrified
I am of maybe being rejected, at least my perception of being
rejected.

What a gift that is. I have always seen the glass as half full and
now am being given the chance to realize that I can survive with
a glass that is half empty. It is all in the perception. Until we face
our demons, they control us. I am so grateful that I was forced to
face up to my fears, see them and transmute them.

Here are some predictions for 2010 that I can embrace.

http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=Q3zJm98UXzQ

Love and Light

Mary Grace
http://www.TheWoundedChalice.com
http://www.TheWoundedChalice.com
[email protected]

3 Brows Beach Dr
PO Box 403
Wales, MA 01081, USA